At one point i used to waste so much money buying designer handbags, and for what? To be admired by random strangers? To be accepted into some sort of ‘elite’ club? Envied by friends? Looking back i realise i just lacked true purpose and direction in life. I was also looking for love and acceptance through an expensive, wasteful lie. Thankfully, i woke up. Now i dream about a waste-free world and really believe it’s possible if we start with ourselves.
I decided to learn a new skill that helps with this focus and am now making bags out of 100% palm leaf. They are reusable for years (depending on how u treat it), biodegradable and #zerowaste. They are also great for gifts. I know not all of you can make these bags, however, what you can do now is implement little changes into your lifestyle that will make a huge impact on the world around you.
Firstly, go vegan ofcourse! If you go for take away food, always take reusable plastic containers. Take a photo of business cards instead of taking the actual card. Shop in second-hand stores for pre-loved bargains. Use a menstrual cup instead of tampons. Always take reusable produce bags for fruits and veggies. Ride your bike to close destinations instead of driving. Bam. These are only a few tips, feel free to add more in the comments
If u were born with a vagina then you are a female. It doesn't take effort to be one. There is nothing you must do, be, wear, think, say, in order to be female. Don't hide your truth behind the feminine lie. You can relax. No you don’t need long lashes and hair, big 'tits', a mini waist, 🍑ass, pretty clothes, sexy makeup, cartoon skin, painted nails, skin tight fashion, and a prepubescent hairless body to be a female. You are female without even trying. So uncross your legs, grow your bodyhair, speak your mind, show your hardness, be assertive and get dirty, because y o u a r e h u m a n. You are not a gender to be manipulated for $$$ and power. I am neither masculine nor feminine, i am just me. Fuck femininity.
I talk about this and so much more in my new ebook My Naked Lunchbox. Take a read and change your life forever.
This sick society continues to slice women up into lips, tits and asses. I look around social media and see the results everywhere. What happened to us?? Overarched belfies (butt selfies) everywhere with barely a normal lip left in the 'beauty' community. Permanently pumped lips and oversized asses are becoming the norm. Are we humans or horses?...even teens are now graded on how culturally fuckable they are instead of who they are as a person and what they can achieve. Women as young as 16 are then mutilating their bodies to fit a narrow unattainable definition of what it means to be sexy. Something i also did to my 21 yr old body. Media then programs men to fetishise these alien body parts. Scuze the french, but what a fucking mess. What's next surgically removing ones pinky toe to fit into fashionable high heels?? Actually yes, that's already a thing....♀we must normalise H U M A N again.
I speak about this and so much more in my new book: My Naked Lunchbox. Take a read and change your life forever.
The female body is not a sex object. Nude or not. You are not an item to be used, bought or sold. You aren't here on earth to embody a fuckbois fantasy. Or as a plaything to make anyone's dick hard. As women, we must keep reminding ourselves of this as we are taught to objectify our body. And to strive to be 'fuckable'. We have been trained to view ourselves through the male gaze. And to critique and sculpt ourselves accordingly rather than embrace our natural human selves. You are not a lifeless sex toy or a pleasure tool. You are a living, loving, breathing being. Your body is a place of worship and respect not a playground for immature men. You are not a something to look at, you are a someone to look into.
I talk about this in my new ebook "My Naked Lunchbox" , it's the most controversial cookbook ever written.